Talking with your loved one

So, it's time to have the conversation with your loved one about his male urinary symptoms. Be sure to let him know that his symptoms are common, and it may be an easily treatable condition that millions of men have dealt with. Also, let him know that although his symptoms could be serious, often they are not.

Here are some tips that may help get the conversation started:

• Provide him with information you may have found on the Internet (like this Web site), at the doctor’s office or have received through the mail
• Let him know how important his health is to you and your family, and that it’s not just all about him
• Make him aware of the importance of regular checkups for him and you
• Make an appointment for him and go with him to provide support

Research shows, if men knew more about their male urinary symptoms, more would seek relief. Hopefully, once you become more informed about the condition, you can help him look into his treatment options with his doctor.

Your loved one may need a different kind of "nudge." You might want to suggest he fill out the American Urological Association (AUA) Symptom Index for BPH.